Happy couples radiate energy and positivity, and this is noticeable to those around them. But even they experience crises. To notice problems in time and attempt to resolve them, it is important to recognize the signals indicating discord in the relationship.
Frequent Quarrels
Conflicts arise over any reason — an unwashed cup, a comb on the couch, or scattered belongings. What was previously ignored suddenly becomes a source of irritation. There is a desire to shout, prove one's point, and not listen to the partner.
Lack of Intimacy
Over time, sexual attraction may decrease due to household concerns, children, and work. But if intimacy is absent for a month, two, or longer, this is a warning signal. There are two possibilities: partners are no longer physically or emotionally attracted to each other, or another person has entered the picture.
Unwillingness to Spend Time Together
If after work partners look for any reasons to stay out of the house, spend evenings apart, and limit joint activities, this indicates a crisis. The lack of shared interests and topics for conversation reduces the desire to be close.
Indifference to the Partner
When emotions towards the partner disappear — neither joy nor sorrow elicits a reaction, and the need to care for and support fades — this signals a deep emotional distance. People begin to seek attention and communication outside the family.
Loss of Mutual Respect
Strong relationships are built on respect. If it is absent, accusations, humiliations, and attempts to suppress the partner arise. Each person pulls the "blanket" towards themselves, not striving to understand the other, which exacerbates the discord.
Mental Presence of Another Person
When partners start to envision an "ideal" other person in their minds, this indicates preparation for a breakup. The previously beloved person ceases to be the "most important," and thoughts of another connection become habitual.
Living by Habit
Some couples continue to live together despite the absence of feelings, deceiving themselves and each other. This is a regular life by inertia, due to fear of responsibility and judgment from others.
All these signs indicate serious problems in the relationship that may lead to a breakup. However, if both partners want to preserve the union, there is a chance to fix the situation: to talk openly, take a joint vacation, or consult a specialist. The main thing is to start acting for the sake of mutual happiness.
