The long-awaited moment is closer than ever – the restaurant for the celebration is chosen, invitations are sent, a divine white dress is bought... But is your beloved ready for such a responsible step? To ensure the correctness of your and his decision, ask him a few simple questions.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with me and why?
Wrong answer: "Of course, otherwise I wouldn’t have asked you to marry me."
Right answer: "I don’t know how life will turn out, but I really want to be with you always and I am ready to do everything possible for that."
Lovers often view life through rose-colored glasses, unafraid of the difficulties of family life and the changes that follow. But marriage, like growing up, is not a romantic book with a happy ending. It is a long, sometimes thorny path that can change people beyond recognition. Therefore, you and your beloved must be aware of all the risks and consequences associated with this important decision in your life.
Are you ready to share not only happiness with me but also possible difficulties?
Wrong answer: "What difficulties? Everything will always be fine for us!"
Right answer: "I am ready to be your support and pillar in difficult situations."
Men often do not think about this. However, it is definitely worth reminding that life is cyclical and unpredictable, especially before the wedding. It cannot consist only of pleasant moments. But if each of the future spouses understands this, then no difficulties will prevent them from being together. Rather, they will bring the lovers even closer, strengthen their character, and make them stronger.
Are you ready to give up certain things for me, as I will?
Wrong answer: "Why should I give up anything?"
Right answer: "We will definitely come to a compromise."
It often happens that women make sacrifices in the name of love. Personal time, habits, hobbies, lifestyle in general... Men, on the other hand, often refuse to adapt to new circumstances. However, it is important to understand that when love is mutual, all our sacrifices become justified, and to maintain a marriage, one must know how to prioritize correctly.
