Today's reality is that women have indeed become stronger, more determined, and independent than ever. At the same time, these same women are asking the question: "Where are all the strong and adequate men?".
The fact is that strong men have been, are, and will be! But they choose those with whom they feel a team spirit, not competition — who is stronger.
A woman can run a business, have a thousand people under her command, be wise and self-confident, while still remaining soft, feminine, and sexy.
Female psychologist Evgenia Alexandrovna notes: there is no need to adapt to men who are clearly weaker! Relationships are not needed just for the sake of it, but to make your "kingdom-state" bigger, stronger, and more powerful. And in this team game, it doesn't matter who earns more or who cooks breakfast better.
However, according to the expert, there is behavior that will definitely repel a decent man.
"Hungry" for Relationships Woman
A man reads this in no time. It’s as if she is saying: "Take me! Choose me! Prove that I am worthy!".
Flirting is intrusive, interest is overly active. He has just started texting, and she has already mentally married him, given birth to five children, and built a house with a garden.
If you recognize yourself — stop. There is no need to seek validation of your worth through someone else's attention. You are already valuable — by the fact of your birth. You just need to feel this with your heart and mind.
Controlling Woman, "Mommy", "Nanny", "Teacher"
She knows better than the man how he should live: what to wear, where to go, where to work, how to react to conflicts with colleagues.
Such control kills feminine lightness and natural attraction. An adequate man will not just leave — he will run away, kicking up his heels.
Victim Woman
Constant dissatisfaction and whining: life is hard, salaries are not enough, all men are the same, the world is unfair.
Such a background is repelling. And not just to men. Instead of inspiring, a woman evokes pity and guilt. Stop viewing the world through a lens of negativity. Life without a victim's position is beautiful.
Rival Woman
Constant comparisons: who earns more, who is stronger, who cleans the floors more often.
Such behavior is an invasion of male territory. As a result, the partner stops seeing the woman as a partner and begins to perceive her as a competitor.
A strong and mature woman does not prove her strength. She chooses not based on income level, but on the alignment of values and maturity.
Doll Woman
Yes, she is beautiful, well-groomed, striking… but she cannot offer anything more. Men also want partnership. It is important for them not only to enjoy the wrapper but also to have someone nearby with whom they can talk, trust, and make plans.
If you want to change — go ahead, but remember: for adequate men, appearance is not the top priority.
Be yourself. Do not compete with a man. Learn to understand what you want from a relationship and choose a partner, rather than clinging to the first one you find.
Mature relationships begin with honesty towards oneself and inner dignity.
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