The Benefits of Romantic Relationships After 45 Have Been Revealed 0 14

A psychologist has revealed the advantages of romantic relationships after 45 compared to relationships in youth. According to the expert, in mature age, relationships usually cease to be a necessity dictated by social pressure or biological clocks. “Having gone through marriage, raising children, and career ups and downs, a person gains greater clarity about themselves. They already know their strengths and weaknesses, understand what they can offer a partner, and what they will not tolerate. People no longer try to appear 'perfect' to please others, but gradually learn to be their true selves. And there is great strength and attractiveness in that,” explained psychologist Larisa Karavaitseva.

Moreover, the interviewee stated that users over 45 are now one of the fastest-growing segments on online dating platforms. However, love at this age still faces barriers, such as fear of judgment from others or insecurity about one's appearance. Many are also held back by past traumas — the pain of divorce, betrayal, and loss.

"Shame for new relationships in mature age is perhaps one of the last social stigmas that is slowly fading away. Today, 50 is the new 30. People understand that they still have 20, 30, or even 40 years of active life ahead. To live them alone due to the fear of 'what people will think' is a huge price," noted the psychologist.

At the same time, the list of expectations from a partner after 45 radically changes: the romanticized search for a 'better half' that 'completes' one is replaced by a more down-to-earth and profound request. The main values become emotional support, respect, and ease of communication. Additionally, the desire to reshape a person to fit oneself disappears — wisdom of acceptance comes in, adds the psychologist.

According to the specialist, 'adult' love has a greater chance of success. “Mature relationships often turn out to be surprisingly strong precisely because their foundation is different. They are built not out of fear of loneliness, social pressure, or the desire to 'make a mark,' but from a deep internal choice of two accomplished individuals,” she concluded.