You are surely familiar with the feeling of euphoria when you are in love and ready to do anything for your partner. But let’s figure out whether it’s really worth sacrificing yourself and losing your true self. What a real woman should never agree to in a relationship.
1. Allow Him to Change You
If he fell in love with your flaws, finding them cute and sexy, and then tries to fix them with all his might, that’s not right. Don’t indulge his whims and don’t give him the opportunity to reshape you. Ultimately, it’s only up to you to decide how you want to be and whether there’s anything you should correct in your behavior.
2. Cancel Your Plans for Him
No, if something really serious happens, then of course, you can adjust your decisions and choose what is important for you at that moment. But you shouldn’t be on standby just because your partner can’t make up his mind about his plans and constantly postpones and changes things. And notice that he often sacrifices you (your relationship) by canceling a meeting for outings with friends or work. So why should you go along with that?
3. Wait for His Approval
You shouldn’t do something with an eye on how your partner will react and wait for praise. Remember, a strong and self-sufficient woman plays by her own rules and doesn’t need an instruction manual. You know what’s best for you, and your partner should appreciate that.
4. Change Your Appearance
We don’t mean those moments when you adjust your style or try a new makeup look, trying to find your image and, of course, to please him. Many women spend agonizing hours in front of the mirror trying to find the perfect outfit for a date. This is more about your physical features. For example, if he demands you change the shape of your nose, the size of your ears, the fullness of your bust or buttocks, become taller or shorter, slimmer or gain a few more pounds… In this way, he is trying to "mold" you into a completely different person, not the one he met and started building a relationship with. Then a reasonable question arises. Why, then, did he choose you in the first place?
5. Do Things That Don't Bring You Joy
Never compromise with yourself. With anyone, but not with yourself! Never agree to do something that you don’t like or that disgusts you. And under no circumstances should you give up your goals! After all, relationships, for example, can end sooner (and in a completely different way) than you planned, and then you will regret the missed opportunities. But you will only have yourself to blame, as it was your choice.
