A woman's attempts to make a man feel guilty are often related not to his actions, but to unmet expectations regarding his behavior.
Reasons for 'Blaming'
Psychologist Evgenia Alexandrovna explains: in a woman's mind, there is already a script for how a man should behave, what to say, and how to be at a given moment. If reality does not match expectations, the tension spills over into external accusations. The man becomes a convenient target for emotional release.
The most vulnerable individuals are empathetic, well-mannered people who tend to justify and smooth over conflicts — this only exacerbates the problem.
Psychologist's Advice for Men
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Stay Calm – do not give in to provocations.
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Separate Emotions from Real Mistakes – apologies should be made only for specific actions, not for the partner's emotional reactions.
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Stand Up for Your Boundaries and Self-Respect – relationships should not be built on a constant sense of guilt for one partner.
"Calmness, boundaries, and honesty are precisely what breaks the habit of 'blaming' and restores balance to the couple," concludes Alexandrovna.
The expert also reminded that praise for specific actions, such as help with household chores or financial support, plays an important role in harmonious relationships.
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