In the modern world, time is such a valuable resource that introductions often boil down to a cup of coffee during a lunch break, and the fate of potential relationships can hinge on any small detail. In such conditions, the ability to make an impression from the first meeting becomes a true art.
Expert in kinetic image — body language and nonverbal communication — Polina Denisova believes that for relationships to continue, a girl must express her femininity, but not through clothing or makeup.
“Her movements, how she carries herself, how she expresses emotions through body language — all of this makes her attractive,” says the expert. “And it’s not about manipulation or trying to charm someone — it’s a natural part of femininity.”
To understand the difference, Polina Denisova advises observing how masculine and feminine energy manifests in movement. Men’s gestures are clear, straightforward, and parallel to each other. Women move more smoothly, softly, and fluidly.
“It’s interesting that in the modern world, we often lose our natural femininity,” says the expert. “Working in a male-dominated environment, striving for equality — all of this can unconsciously lead us to mimic male behavior patterns. But you know what? Studies show that men value women for their uniqueness, their ability to be gentle and feminine.”
How to Behave on a First Date
This is your chance to express your utmost femininity through body language. Pay attention to the smoothness of your movements, avoid sharp gestures. Try to do everything naturally and gracefully, adopting asymmetrical poses.
“Imagine that your body is a river flowing smoothly and freely,” says Polina. “Your movements should be as if your body is stretching diagonally.”
How to Behave When Meeting the Groom’s Parents
This is when communication and behavior skills undergo a real test. It’s important to strike a delicate balance: be natural while showing respect to the elders, joy in meeting them, and sincerity in your feelings for their son.
“First of all, it’s important to eliminate any, even unconscious, sexual signals,” emphasizes the expert. “This can cause misunderstandings and negative reactions, especially from your partner’s mother. It’s equally important to flawlessly adhere to etiquette rules: confidently use cutlery, communicate correctly with the service staff, even if you haven’t had such experience before.”
The second most important point is to demonstrate worthy modesty. This is expressed through proper posture, a calm gaze with the chin parallel to the floor, and measured movements without fuss. At the same time, it’s important not to cross the line between modesty and arrogance.
5 Secrets to Successful Introductions
To make a good impression, you should follow several important rules.
- Stand confidently, but without arrogance.
- Pay attention to your posture, but don’t tense up.
- Speak calmly, with a smile.
- Avoid overly familiar behavior.
- Show genuine interest in the conversation.
- Avoid fidgety movements: work on their smoothness. By the way, attending workshops can help with this.
