Dads raise differently — more calmly, boldly, and simply. And in many situations, their approach has an astonishingly strong influence on the child. Here are five important skills that children most often acquire from their fathers.
Dads Set Boundaries
They are less emotional and not prone to long negotiations. Unlike moms, dads often use one clear and consistent way to achieve results. This helps the child understand boundaries and rules more quickly.
Dads Are More Objective
Since dads spend less time with their children, they are better at noticing progress: new skills, abilities, changes in behavior. Often, it is with dad that the child first starts to eat independently, dress themselves, or clean up toys — simply because the father is bolder in trusting the child with responsibility.
Dads Are Fearless
Dads allow children to try new things: sliding down a high slide, making an omelet at five years old, or chopping salad. Their confidence gives the child an important sense of support and stimulates the development of independence.
Dads Play for Real
When dad gets into the game, he does it sincerely — with pleasure and excitement. Toy cars, building blocks, remote-controlled toys — everything turns into a real adventure. Such emotional involvement makes the game truly alive.
Dads Allow a Little More
Sometimes you can have fun without looking back: running around all day, getting dirty, or going to bed later than usual. And although discipline is important, many bright and happy childhood memories are born from such "permitted mischief."
