Sometimes a cat sits calmly on your lap, purring, and then suddenly starts biting. Why does this happen?
Overstimulation
What a person perceives as an expression of affection can irritate a pet. Most cats enjoy short strokes around the head and ears, but prolonged petting over the entire body often leads to overstimulation. When a cat bites during petting, it is most often a form of communication rather than an attack — something like, “Enough, thank you.”
Body Language Matters
If a cat starts twitching its tail, flattening its ears, or suddenly freezing, it means that the next step could be a bite. The transition from a relaxed state to a tense one is a signal to stop petting and give the pet some space.
Love Bites
Some cats practice so-called “love bites” — gentle nibbles without breaking the skin. However, if a bite leaves marks, it may indicate pain, fear, or irritation. In such cases, it is advisable to consult a veterinarian to rule out medical issues.
Other Reasons
Sometimes cats perceive petting as play, especially young ones or those with few opportunities for active play. In such cases, it is helpful to offer a toy to redirect their energy. If a pet bites when touched in a specific area, it may be related to pain or discomfort — a consultation with a specialist is also necessary in this case. Additionally, cats prefer to initiate and end contact themselves. A bite may be a way to maintain control over the situation.
How to React?
It is not advisable to punish a cat for biting. It is better to calmly remove your hand and give it some time alone. To reinforce positive associations, you can later offer a treat or playtime.
It takes time for a pet to comfortably endure longer petting sessions. Respecting its boundaries and being attentive to its signals helps strengthen trust and connection.
