Modern Zoomers do not know what boredom is.
People born in the 1970s refuse to live by the 10 rules that young people almost always follow.
1. Work Defines Your Identity
Many young people are expected to choose a career (often at a very young age) that will completely define their identity and human essence. Self-esteem is tied to success. While working with a high purpose can be motivating, excessive identification with a career often harms well-being. When something goes wrong or layoffs occur, a person's self-worth is at stake.
Given that many people in the 70s could work in less demanding positions with less prestige while still supporting themselves, it is not surprising that they rejected this rule. They worked hard, but status did not matter as much, as most salaries were enough to support a family.
2. Bigger is Better
In our materialistic world, young people often adopt the mindset that "more is better." From careers to money and possessions, they are always in pursuit of something "big."
However, people in the 70s lived by different rules of frugality, valuing what they already had. They were not pressured to constantly follow trends from social media.
3. Everything Must Be Monetized and Optimized
Unlike the simple life of the 70s, when hobbies were a way to occupy free time, today’s generation is forced to monetize everything. They are pressured to turn their passions into side hustles.
The desire to earn from everything, often dictated by economic hardships, makes life less enjoyable.
4. Discomfort Should Be Avoided
Discomfort is key to personal growth. Instead of distracting themselves with endless entertainment or avoiding difficult conversations, as young people do today, it is important to develop resilience.
Instant gratification and "gentle parenting" train modern adults to seek comfort from others, while the ability to cope with difficulties is a superpower of people from the 70s.
5. Everything Must Be Convenient
From food delivery to instant stimulation on smartphones, young people have become dependent on convenience. This makes people more selfish and demanding.
Decades ago, people in the 70s were familiar with a strong work ethic and the ability to be bored. They learned to appreciate the art of waiting, which shaped their patience.
6. You Need to "Heal" from Everything
People of the past generation did not necessarily care about the modern culture of "healing." They did not become unnecessary, "protecting their peace," and did not get stuck due to the need to heal wounds.
They simply lived with their emotions, without resorting to "ghosting" to avoid uncomfortable conversations.
7. Always Follow Your Passion
Today’s culture encourages "passion" in work, often subtly promoting workaholism.
People in the 70s were fine with taking jobs just for the paycheck. They found meaning in personal time and family, not in job titles.
8. Boredom Should Be Avoided
Boredom is incredibly important for brain health. As experts from the Mayo Clinic explained, it helps improve cognitive processes and mood.
Children of the 70s had the chance to experience boredom without phones and constant parental supervision, which contributed to their personal growth.
9. Everything Needs an Explanation
In modern cancel culture, young people feel entitled to explanations for everything. People from the 70s could make decisions and live more private lives without constant scrutiny and the need to justify themselves.
They had an inner confidence that allowed them to accept growth without unnecessary words.
10. Success Must Be Documented
The culture of comparison on social media forces Zoomers to showcase their success for approval. People from the 70s learned to live more privately.
Recognition of success came from within themselves, allowing them to achieve goals without expecting someone to pat them on the back.
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