Many complain about health issues, conflicts, or psychological difficulties, but do nothing about it. A psychologist explains why this happens and how to break out of this vicious circle.
1. It Benefits Them
Some people have been conditioned since childhood to receive attention and care only when they are unwell. Therefore, when everything is fine, they fear losing the attention of those around them. This mechanism is similar to psychological "vampirism": a person unconsciously maintains problems to receive emotional support.
2. They Are Afraid
Fear of the truth about oneself or a diagnosis can be paralyzing. People postpone visits to doctors or psychologists, endure anxiety, conflicts, and emotional pain just to avoid confronting unpleasant reality.
3. They Don't Want to Take Responsibility
Some prefer to consult psychics, fortune-tellers, or astrologers instead of specialists. They feel more comfortable believing that fate depends on external forces rather than their own actions, and avoid taking responsibility for their lives.
Source: cluber.com
