5 Mistakes Women Make That Complicate Their Lives 0 35

Expert: Laura Schlessinger, psychologist

Foolish Attachment

Evaluating one's self-worth through relationships with men leads to hasty marriages and dependent connections. Advice: boost your self-esteem and do not demean yourself with unworthy relationships.

Foolish Devotion

Accepting a partner's bad behavior "for the sake of love" and the fear of being alone create emotional dependency. Advice: do not mix fantasies, sexual relationships, and true love — be honest with yourself.

Foolish Expectations

Attempts to "re-educate" a partner lead to disappointment. Advice: before entering into marriage, assess the reality of the relationship and your motives, rather than past traumas.

Foolish Intent

Having a child should only be considered when there is love, resources, and the ability to ensure their well-being. Advice: think through your decision about motherhood without societal pressure or the fear of being alone.

Foolish Helplessness

Suppressing anger and the inability to defend your boundaries leads to depression and illness. Advice: express emotions constructively, set boundaries, and do not allow others to take advantage of you.